Krystal’s Advice on Men

Sitting @ Marigny bar in NOLA .... I am eating fried green tomatoes & fritters....Cabernet for me & mojitos for her, my newest & latest passer by friend. A paaser by friend is someone who you just met and it feels like you knew her/him forever! So then y'all have a conversation about something very important you will take with you the rest of your life but never see that person again in your life.

Now we both are women in our second part of our life. We know any man we meet will already be established & have invested in outside past lives where we took no part - don’t try to interfere Because “you will lose”. There is a reason they are “not there anymore” she told me.

her routine includes daily smoking her occasional cigarette at the table outside of the Frenchmen Street restaurant/bar

we continue to discuss dating

she is a powerhouse I feel the privilege of attaining her advice and feel welcomed into her private circle of sensual knowledge My new passerby friend works in technical medical field controls a program @ Tulane - which brought her to NOLA

"no", she says that he said she is no cougar - she looks thirty years old (her childhood roots were in Michigan) She is a Jaguar, he told her!